I read your post adn yes, it does give me some words of encouragement. This EA how long did it last? I too used to ride 4-wheelers and go play baseball, video games, etc...when we were dating and up until about 3-4 year ago. When we would go camping I would do anything even last year when we went to Garner. However, there was things I did not do with him that I should have. He also thought that I was having an affair, but I wasn't. There was times I thought about it and there was times men came on to me, so I guess that Temptation thing in the Bible is so true. People can sense when your actions speak louder than words. I still wear my wedding ring, but my husband is insisting that we are getting a divorce and he even called the attorney last week. He asked me on Sunday where the paperwork was so he could sign and we could schedule a court date, so we could be divorced. I have told him numerous tiems I did not want the d, but he says we had our chance adn we blew it. He says he lost the desire to try and work this out adn he doesn't want aan intimate relationship with me cause he will not allow him self to fall back into that emotional feeling again with me.