I pray for you all the time. my 3 yr old twins want to know why they are praying for a spoon. If you get the water balloon analogy then go with it.
I know that your married and she should just be honest with you, but it doesn't work that way with problems in the M. ______________ it is a catch 22. Do i be aloof and trust that? Or do I put pressure and lose her? ____________
Sorry man, what's the catch?
______________ But seriously, like this? Is this how women are? She says she doesnt know I love her, that I would just be lonely. I have been gone for 2 of the last 3 years. Thats not my fault, I didnt want to be here. When, when do I get a damn chance. Or is the life of our children, my life gonna be torn apart because she is unhappy. Does she think that is gonna make her family happy. Even if that doesnt include me. Thats gonna make the kids happy. Hey, Ive been wrong before and Ill admit it when I am. I can be shown the error of my ways. BUT THIS IS JUST DAMN SELFISH. She is not even thinking of the kids, and she refuses to talk about anything other than what she wants or getting her way. HELP!! _____________
No spoon, that is not how women are. but it is how WAS are. check out how much the LBS is suffering all over this board, how the kids are suffering. I had to go to a food bank to feed my kids and after a couple of months of eating whatever they didn't finish so as not to waste and get soemthing in my stomach, one night one of my sons asked me if I was ever going to eat with them again. I had to go in the bathroom and cry. No son, I can't b/c we don't have enough food. My H left me with all the bills including his car payment-- and he took the car, our only vehicle, and 2 days later came back and dumped the change jar claim that was all his too. He refused to pay child support for a long time. and I already mention that I am having allotment issues. My kids are suffering and he doesn't see it. he thinks that he is a better dad than most and that he he's and spends more time with the boys than most. He told me that b4 enlisting and he was averaging 1 -2 partial days a week. THATS a WA, A WAH and a WADad.
_______ friend of mine syas that when we talk with no emotion then it is done. __________ No, that's when you have completed step A and are ready for step B.
Please stop worrying about where she's gonna go if she goes. You are borrowing trouble. Focus on the next 45 days nothing more.
