yeah I get your point. But u sure I let her go shes gonna come back? You know I have this reflex to defend myself but Im not gonna. There were other things that lead to my leaving. She knows full well what they were and yet even though my actions were horrible, she is gonna hold it against me? You are right, grow up, we both need to. But, I read all of these articles and they all say well ou had an affair and women are supposed to be the more understanding sex, so tell me when are we supposed o com to the table and talk like adults, instead of just its gonna be my way or nothing, and damn everyone else? What is the point where we boh come ready to talk about things. I knw Im not there yet. A friend of mine syas that when we talk with no emotion then it is done. But there is plenty of emotion from both of us when we talk? She knows how much I love her, that I am sure of. So why does she say she doesn't? And take care of my kids, she is trying to mke that impossible. She doesn't even know where in the staes she is gonna go. At first we were talking about htis in terms that she was going back to Missouri. But now, even if I could get Ft Campbell she might not go there. I know this isnt easy, bu why is she makng it harder?
