spoon: let me ask you a question? when YOU had an affair on your wife, did you think of your children, or were you so messed up that it didnt matter? your wife is messed up just like you were, understand that please. the unfortunate thing is your children are the ones suffering. when you call w, stay upbeat, and short with her, then talk to your children and be the father they need. its time for BOTH of you to grow up and focus on your children. shes messed up right now, you can not do anything about that, just like she couldnt when you were, so please think of your children and focus nothing but possitive things towards them. do you hear me, understand me, leave the marriage for now, focus on you job at hand and that is you children. let her go for now, she will come back. stay strong man you have to be.
