Quote: FINALLY some real progress. You're doing VERY well my friend. I knew Frank could work his magic with you. Not that we didn't help but if you actually take the time to read his story there is SO much to be learned.
Thank you so much, GH, for all of your time, effort and energy. I am strengthened by your presence, energy, and perspective. BTW, you are not the only one thinking, FINALLY.
Quote: You ARE learning and yes, school's open for both you, to learn all you can about yourself, and your W, to fully understand the ramifications of her actions since she seems so hellbent on them.
I am certainly open to learning. And yes, she certainly does seem hellbent on her direction. Sad thing tonight, my D5 was misbehaving and I was talking with ehr and she told me that she is misbehaving so much b/c mommy and daddy are not together. She would much rather get in trouble than feel ignored and unimportant. I have been telling my W all along that D is a life defining time in children's lives, despite what she and her manhater GFs would try to fill her head with. My W seems to lap that BS up b/c it falls in line with supporting her on her D path.
I do believe that the changes in me will necessitate a change in her and/or in our R, at the very least. As I previously posted, my goal for me is excellenceNOTperfection.
I believe more now than ever that I truly will make the much needed changes in me to become the man that God always intened for me to be and those changes in me will have a huge positive impact in my DB efforts. And yes, my focus is ONLY on me for me, and not on the much hoped for outcome. The changes in me will be my gift to me that I, and my children, will raap the benefits from for our lifetimes.
Quote: Keep it up. Oh, and you know that "pat myself on the back" thing I said I always detected in your posts... it's gone now.
High praise from you and high praise to you. Thank you for always offering your lucid and pointed perspective that I often need right between the eyes. You, kind sir, are truly a dear friend. Thank you.
I am certainly open to learning. And yes, she certainly does seem hellbent on her direction. Sad thing tonight, my D5 was misbehaving and I was talking with ehr and she told me that she is misbehaving so much b/c mommy and daddy are not together. She would much rather get in trouble than feel ignored and unimportant. I have been telling my W all along that D is a life defining time in children's lives, despite what she and her manhater GFs would try to fill her head with. My W seems to lap that BS up b/c it falls in line with supporting her on her D path.