FINALLY some real progress. You're doing VERY well my friend. I knew Frank could work his magic with you. Not that we didn't help but if you actually take the time to read his story there is SO much to be learned.
You ARE learning and yes, school's open for both you, to learn all you can about yourself, and your W, to fully understand the ramifications of her actions since she seems so hellbent on them.
Keep it up. Oh, and you know that "pat myself on the back" thing I said I always detected in your posts... it's gone now.