Quote: I had my 5th test and 2nd panel interview for a job with a large reputable company with LOTs of opportunity for advancement. The last panel said they would recommend me for the position and that, although he NEVER does this, he would talk with some other managers about me and possibly using me and my skill sets in other areas than the one I recently applied for. I am DOING. I am so afraid to DO anything b/c I feel like any action other than what my W wants and approves of will surely mean my D. But who am I kidding, my W is so sure that she wants the D. I have to stop living for her because I am dying by not living for me.
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Ummmm....the job prospect sounds like a great opportunity and I hope they call you back....and ummmmm.....what the hell does it matter what your wife thinks? SHE wanted to be separated from you, well she is. Quite frankly it is none of her business where you work...and besides that, she treats you like crap and it's not good to have your mother in law up your butt all the time because I have gotten the feeling she rides both sides of the fence...and can you tell me, just how long HAS it been that you have been trying to read you wife's mind and do only what you perceive would make her happy?
I am DOING. I am so afraid to DO anything b/c I feel like any action other than what my W wants and approves of will surely mean my D. But who am I kidding, my W is so sure that she wants the D. I have to stop living for her because I am dying by not living for me. 