WOW. I am blown away and honored that you would take so much of your time to help me. All of the glowing comments about your are right on! It's 5 minutes to midnight and I need to drive home to get some sleep. I will respond to your beautiful post tomorrow when I have a sandwich and a drink. Thank you Frank! You pegged me quickly, as GH said you would, helped me immeasureably, as Amy said you would, and touched my heart. Thank you.