You have benefit since your W is AT HOME with you. Guarantee that she won't notice changes in YOU for AWHILE..... but YOU keep working on YOU. You will see a difference in all your relationships! Work, friends, family..... some may or may not appreciate the new you w/ the self-esteem and knowing what you want for a change - but they will admire you for it . I kind of like the "exceptions" part - find out what worked in the past - your part in what worked - and GO for it.
Oh, and "feelings come back naturally". What the heck does THAT mean? How DID your love start? A MACK TRUCK hit ya? Or did ya get to know each other over 5 or 6 years?.... What the heck IS LOVE ANYWAY????? (I know what LUST is...... but can you actually describe the enduring love that a relationship/marriage is to be based? Try to define it)
Keep the faith.
[This message has been edited by TheSeeker (edited 08-19-2000).]
- but they will admire you for it 
. I kind of like the "exceptions" part - find out what worked in the past - your part in what worked - and GO for it.
