Re Lil (Why would you think your comment was "flip"????? I did not know if you were trying to be comical or were cracking a semi joke or something else. I also did not want to look like I was nit-picking.
Cobra will say someone is X or Y or should do A or B. I don't make many declarative statements. I suggest things and even ease into most of those suggestions.
I am not putting my abilities down but realise I am not in the top 20% when it comes to making helpful suggestions to other posters that are in need. I have good intentions but not always the best, most applicable, or highest quality of advice.
Maybe flip was not the most accurate word to use. Maybe there is a relationship between what I do at home with some of the things BB does and I re-do. Like loading similar things together in the dishwasher. She puts different shaped things next to each other and I used to rearrange things.. BB felt I was trying to make her look deficient some how.
I have told her I was just trying to get more dishes in the dishwasher and trying to help the cleaning process. To her, I was acting like she was not knowledgeable enough to load the dishwasher correctly.
BB's method was big bowl next to a little bowl, next to a big bowl, next to a little bowl and so on did not look the best to me so I did all same shapes soup dishes, then Med bowls. Me OCD? Maybe just a little, you counter you.
Other spatial relationship issues. I get 95% of the things back in a box the item came in. BB's rate is less than 30%. I get the final suitcase or moving box packing jobs too.
So me correcting the title you suggested, to "The Divorce Remedy," was me trying to tread lightly, about my suggestion/correction issues, in case you meant something else or somehow didn't like me or anyone else coming behind you saying my way or advice is better.
Lil, I really don't think you are that sensitive. It is more my problem due to some of my issues with people I have dealt with, especially BB.
With BB and a few others, I have to hold back in several areas and don't want to be thought of as a know it all or something similar unless it is something I really am knowledgeable, for instance some models of printers.
I do have the book "The Divorce Remedy" and consider it one of my top 10% books. I think Divorce Busting was printed first, and The Divorce Remedy later, and a little more understandable or laid out so most people found it easier or logical to follow.
