Hi 2learn:
Your H sounds very similar to mine. I’ve been thinking about starting a thread here but am not quite “brave” or confident enough that we are actually “Piecing”. We are scheduled to go to Retrouvaille on the 20th of Sept.. You can catch the long version of my story in the MLC Forum. I think it’s called: “The Long Road Home- an MLC journey.” We just bought a house together. We are still not sleeping in the same bedroom. (no sex, either ) (I wrote the latest update on Snodderly’s thread about page 6 or so.)
I am worried about my H’s reaction to Retrouvaille. He hates organized religion and dogma. What can you say regarding that?

I think things are coming along with you and your H. I know it feels so slow but from what I’ve read from your thread, (I just sat an read the whole thing) things do seem to be improving. Keep up the good work. Since I took all that time to read your thread, gotta make this short. Will try to check back later.