Hi rmccord, You have the name of most of my relatives! I have a very small family till you get back to those mccords!
Yes I believe it is possible to build some type of trust after a lengthy affair. In my travels I met a couple in cyberspace who are recovering from something like a 16 year affair!!!! I don't know if the trust will ever be complete again like it was. Maybe when we are both 90something... ...
Here is our story hope it helps. Do not be fooled by the different name alottolearn, that's me. Now I know that I'm on the planet to learn just like everybody else thus the name change (plus lost passwords!) You can do it rmccord!
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