Just a note to say that things are going very well. They changed right after our last OR talk which was about 10 days ago and are maintaining. My H seems to have understood some things he didn't before and I am understanding new ways of looking at how we relate to each other too. I think the main reason why this is happening is because I opened up, but in a better way than I have in the past, and a combination of "letting the world turn" (my father's expression for letting things be--calm acceptance of "what is" over time)and plain ole persistence. My H is treating me very kindly and lovingly even though he is terribly stressed out with work. I am deeply appreciative. We are getting better. How I hope we can continue to progress! Peace and kindness do lead to understanding and love. I wish you all these four and more! 2L
