Gabe, I'm doing a great job of dropping the rope. Divorce goes through on Monday and I feel quite right about it. I believe I am officially, divorced AND done.
I am convinced the marriage was never meant to be in the first place. The moments in the last year when I felt I should try and save my marriage were the moments I was in denial about my Ex' character and lack of love for me. It feels real good to finally face facts and move on.