This is what I posted on another forum for my goals:
1. Start actively getting a life; writing, exercise, bible study, choir, gym, volunteering, theatre acting. 2. Get a new job, maybe take a 2nd job. 3. In one month invite my H on a supper date to talk about what's good in our lives right now, no mention of D, even though it's thru July 24th. 4. Long-term goal, pay down debt (I absorbed all of our marital debt in legal separation, since I would have had to go to court to have my H take half of it and court costs would have amounted to half the debt ) 5. Travel 6. Date a little. 7. Lucky number 7, my H realizes he doesn't want to live without me.
I'm writing and jogging, and dating a little (but god I hate it), and booking my trip to Mexico with my friend this weekend. Yay!!
I'm not sure about inviting my X on a supper date because I was always the pursuer.
I'm still spending too much time in my bedroom with the laptop computer and television. But I'm also getting out for jogs on the grid road with my dog, seeing friends and set a deadline for a writing submission for end of July.
My work is super busy and demanding right now, lots of travel, I am exhausted. My mom is such a friend. The other night I phoned her at two in the morning while on a business trip, bawling my head off about some stupid meeting. And she says it's only been one year since he left, it's normal to be emotionally upset about other things when really underneath it's still the loss I'm experiencing. Wise woman. I love her. Thanks for listening (reading?)
