Andy-I posted this to lily and wanted your take on it too. My SIL e-mailed me and told me that she just did not think things seemed right between Adrian and I. SHe was with us on Sunday at our house. I don't know why, but this really upset me. I e-mailed her back and said that we were both working on mkaing things better anf tht thesethigs take time. She did write me backand said that I was right, and that she probably shouldn't have siad that. It just had me feeling like sheis seeing something maybe I should be seeing. I mean I know we are not the happy couple of the year yet, but we have come along way since he had moved out and now has been back for almost 5 months. I know things aren;t as right as I'g like them to be either. He is not as effectionate as I'd like him to be,especially around other people, but he never really was.I've come to know that's just how he isn't. He is very close to his sister and she has always taken care of him. She and I get along ok, but that really bothered me. It's like oh my gosh are we really getting anywhere, REALLY, or are we just together and peoeple can tell it's just not right. I've had other people-well-one friend say that she thinks Adrian seems happier that he has in a long time, and she knows him very well. It just really upset me. What do you think?? Why would that upset me so much? It brought back the anxiety and insecurities as soon as I read it! Rachael M.
