Quote: Our D will be final in October but he hasnt asked me to stop it...give him more time and dont ask right?
Don't ask. Don't pressure him. October is a long way away and there's plenty of time to approach that. I think he's testing the waters to make sure he knows what he wants. Make sure you are being the best YOU that you can be within the relationship and before you know it, I bet HE will be the one stopping the D.