Quote: So, keep on keeping on. Keep the faith and remember everyone, it isn't your goal to heal your spouse, or your marriage. It is your goal to heal YOURSELF first so that it is POSSIBLE for your spouse to heal, and then your marriage to heal.
Once you do heal yourself, you won't NEED your spouse or your marriage any more. You'll choose to pursue it without the neediness and if it doesn't come back you'll know you did all that could be done. If it does return then you'll be in a much better relationship that you ever were before.
Amen. I too don't post as often - but when I do to others it usually entails a snippet like the above - since it is in essence completely true.
Sven
Never sacrifice the great for the good. Sometimes the beauty of grace is that it makes life not fair.
