frank_d...the wind beneath my wings....I understand the journey you are on since, ironically, I am on a parallel path. I understand. I know the pain. I know the hurt. I know the healing process that we must go thru.

I, too, grieve when the threads I have joined do not result in a positive outcome. The pain we all suffer here is horrific. However, during this holiday season, we DO need to give thanks for the little things we have AND the big things:
-our children
-our health
..to mention a few. For the some of us, our M's/R's.

For me, I thank you again for helping to show me the way. My W is back. My healing is on it's way, and, like you, I have many obstacles to overcome. I hope that the true spirit of the season is yours to find.

From our house to yours, Happy Holidays.

Eastern Frank

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;