Hi Frank,
Thank you for sharing your story. Sorry to hear about the sadness you and the girls are reminded about. Hopefully, the hurt gets healed soon. It is nice when people like you share from time to time your wisdom and lessons learned. I hope to be where you are someday. Don't know when or if the M would ever heal but I am changing all I can so there will be no regrets on my part. Thanks for the advice/reminder to heal ourselves. Good luck with your M. And by the way, it's so loving of you to be comforting your W and holding her hand as she deals with her guilt. ~PH