Even though the events of the past year left us somewhat financially devastated, we're actually having more fun than we've had in a long time, and we're working together to fix the past and build the future
Hey Frank, your sitch is a little like mine, I was also remembering the days before halloween, when I'm pretty sure my H's A got PA and how he went out w/her and the craziness took off big time. Also how we are also in a huge debt because of all he did.
But we DO have a lot more fun together w/what we have, we went to a halloween party together and it felt so good, he was so affectionate like ever and I the fact that I knew what he was doing last year that date didn't hurt me, he was w/me, holding me and having a great time, and he is mine again ...oh, we've come so far, thanks to our dear Lord.
Quote: So it's taking me some time to let that all go
It is such a slow process,but I feel better now, I dont' feel like waiting for "the other shoe" anymore, i'm letting go of my fear, and it feels great!
Have an awesome trip to Disney! have a great time, each thing you guys do together will create new good memories, and by this time next year we dont' have to remember any awful anniversaries anymore
...but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.
piecing after separation
...oh, we've come so far, thanks to our dear Lord.
