Quote: I can't afford to make old mistakes: pursuing calling, whining, stalking her friends for information, calling her family every day to ask them to intervene, using my kids for information
There is hope for you. I did all of these for about 3 1/2 months. Then I finally got sense enough to stop. It took a good 2 1/2 months of being a good person for her to see that I wasn't working behind the scenes for her to believe in me. I was caught every single time. When they catch you, they are pissed and this gives them more reasons to keep the distance.
OneWish's Story
"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them."
