Hi Frank....Nicola referred me to your thread. She told me that you and I had a similar sitch. Could you send me the very first link that you posted? Do you have the time and patience to look thru my thread and give me advice? It's tough times. BTW, my name is Frank too. Thanks so much. FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;