I think there are still some demons there. Not in your marriage but you. I have read your situation. You are a fighter. You are a survivor. You choose your destiny. You have some wisdom to throw out.
I am a control freak too. Have you said "F...IT" "I" do not have all the answers. F it all just let it all go and not try to figure it all our yourself.
Frank you are a self made man. I will hand you that. ANYBODY that thinks they have life figured out is full of sh^t. We have common experiences that can help others and they can relate to. (I know never end a sentence with a preposition)
Let go and have faith. I ain't gonna lie. I can't do that now. I know I need to. I know you need to.
