Quote: Yep. Remember that women do not want men to 'fix' their problems if they don't ASK you to.
This really does worn when you just listen to them and not add your opinion or solution unless they ask. It is so funny. My mom would come home every day after work and complain about work. I noticed that my father would just sit there on the computer playing party poker and wouldn't respond. Then my mom would get up and leave happy. I made a comment to my mom that my dad wasn't listening to what she had to say. He said, yes I am, she said such and such. Little did I know that what he is doing works. Now I get it!
Quote: And, if you didn't get the answer to my previous 'quiz', her question was 'will you do this to me again?'. She doesn't need an answer, she needs you to know it's on her mind and it scares her.
Nothing but positives here.... You are doing a great job.
I will never hurt her again. She has asked me this question and I assured her that I would not be that type of person any more. Thanks. You played a vital part in my success when I was breaking DB rules and feeling worthless. I was finally able to stand on my own two feet, be accountable, and be willing to change.
OneWish's Story
"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them."
