Quote: One question for you: Have you truly let your 'old ways' go? They can sneak up on you when you least expect them.
Yes, I have truly changed my ways. I am not going to fall back into my old patterns. Through this process, I have learned that my wife and God are my #1 priorities. I have learned that even though I am in my 20s, I can be more mature and break free from my parents and continue to form a strong relationship with my wife. I do need to re-read the books and continue to read. I went from working 20 hours a week to working 50 hours a week now that I have graduated from graduate school. I will continue to read and learn as much as I can. I really am enjoying life.
I laughed this morning while I was golfing and I thought about something that you told me Frank. I said that I'll quit golfing just to make my wife happy. You told me, that I can't do that because that is something that I enjoy and that I would be miserable if I didn't do things to make myself happy. You are right, I can't give up golf. My wife takes priority over my golfing. I can now enjoy a round of golf and not have extraneous things on my mind to frustrate me.
I'll need to read your thread to see where you are. I am praying that your family is able to be happy again.
God Bless
OneWish's Story
"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them."
