Hi Andy,
What a lovely note you got! Had a talk with my H last night that was reassuring that he's not fooling around. It's probably been at least 3 months since we had a talk like that. Hope it helps in the long run. He still has this idea that paying attention to my needs even the easy ones means that he can't be himself. Oh well. I got things to do people to see life to live.

I'm doing some research on a house today. Hope we can make this work out!!! I think it would help us both to feel settled and sure would be nice to have my time back!

Sounds to me like you all are headed to the easy peaceful feelings (hear the music?). Hope they come to us all as we stand here on the ground.

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