I'm at work right now, and I'm swamped. I haven't had time to read the latest posts, so I'll come back later to respond.
The only thing I want to say is that you (and anyone else) are always welcome here, JJ.
My step-mom once said to me, "The job of a councellor is to give you advice. You don't have to take that advice if you don't agree with it." I think the same thing applies to friends such as you and the other posters.
Like I told Fille, I like to think that I listen to the advice, but I don't always implement it right away - if ever.
But, to everything, there is a season (turn turn turn). Hey! that sounds like a good title for a thread, eh Fille?
