That's nice you went for a ride together! My H and I do that sometimes and it is fun. He wants to buy a Harley, so I imagine he will. You are so right about some things would be sooo nice to know. I wonder-Am I kidding myself about my H having no contact with the OW after 2 1/2 yrs?? It seems to hard too beleive he could just cut it off like that. Plus, he gaurds his cell phone like Fort Knox! Maybe its just my imagination, but he never leaves his cell alone with me. I'm wondering what tht's all about. I'm also wondering if I should ask to see his cell bill in our next C session?? If he has nothing to hide, why would he not want to reassure me? It would have all the numbers on it that he has talked to. It goes to his office so no chance of me getting ahold of it. He swears he's had no contact. He treats me kind and loving,but man it sure is hard to beleive he really does not talk to her anymore. Am I obsessing????? Andy...wether your W is depressed or not, the effects on you are the same it would seem. It's hard to want to be effectionate to someone that does not want you-I should say it just plain hurts. I hope your S. improves soon. I'm sorry...you seem so well, hopeless right now, and that's a hard place to be. Hang in there kid, Rachael M.
