Quote: ---------------------------------------- I am basically in a place right now where I either break my heart or destroy my world. I've tried to talk with several people about it, but the main response I get is "this is common issue that you are making out to be some terrible thing." It doesn't feel common to me. ----------------------------------------
Define common.
Common issues with women that behave the way your wife has been behaving;
- She is trying to get you to have unprotected sex with her because she has recently done so with someone else and wants to provide cover for the act.
- She has determined that the only way to fix your marriage is to do something familiar (comfortable) to her, such as being pregnant and caring for a newborn.
- She fears her behavior is driving you back to your previous affair thus making her even more clingy. This is not an unwarranted fear by the way.
- She may have sabotaged your condoms.
- You can't get it up because of her clinging.
Add your own list, but the above is 'common' for women in estrous who are seeking conception in earnest.
Which common act has befallen you? Whatever it is, no need for the drama. The good folks here will lend an ear and offer support.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
