Yo, emotional-workout-buddy...Hey, remember? We are supposed to be spotting each other. Can't spot you if you go into a dark corner of the weight room and try to press 400 pounds without clueing me in.
Email me at slinky22 at gmail.com and we'll talk. No need to carry that weight all by yourself, pal.
I totally get the "common thing" comments people give you. No one seems to understand how devastating it can be when you feel you have no decent options left. Email me, bro.