Don't forget we are all here because of similar issues. I think we are all (forgive me people) pretty "common" everyday Joes and Josephines. Something I have learned here is that other smart, attractive, loving people have SL issues too. I thought the fact that I had SL issues pointed out that I wasn't smart, kind, attractive, loving etc... It was one of my litmus tests of myself. Well, being on this board doesn't make me a failure, having a sucky sex life doesn't make me a failure, even having a prior failed marriage doesn't make me a failure unless I permit it. There is always more to me than whatever thing I am currently failing at. Chrome, you are a good man, a good Dad, a good husband. I can't predict what will happen to you and Mrs. Chrome. Right now, I am mostly interested in seeing that you are ok. I am thinking of you and hoping that things get better.
Karen
PS Can't look down on you. I'm feeling kinda low myself.