a womans arousal is not about the physical techniques so much. yeah being a good physical lover is something to work towards, but its far easier and more fun when there exists an atmosphere of intimacy/attraction/desire. besides from your post that doesnt seem to be the problem.
Chromos current success is not about his sexual skill level. Its about his manifesting certain behaviors that women respond too. Some of it is in relation to his male sexual drive. he is not apolgetic for it. His W became very affectionate and cuddly (something he used to think was impossible for her) after several months of doing things differently then he used to.
If you want desire from your W, your going to have to 1) discard what you think should work, cause it hasnt 2) learn what women find desireable and accept it 3) lose the fear that it wont work, cause its foreign to you 4) start doing it
in every one of your posts about you and your W, I see examples of placating and supplicating behavior. Dont be mad at her, for doing what worked to get a 'good H'. focus on you to doing what works to getting a 'good W'.
Chromo
man, this is starting to get kinky everyones concept of kink is different. for example having sex in public doesnt faze me in the slightest, but I wouldnt let a woman use a stap-on, on me. thats my definition of, too kinky, even if prostate stimulation purportedly does feel good.
So while most here dont mind talking about sex in a very specific manner, I dont see anyone trying to be kinky, inciteful, or otherwise instigate inappropriate behavior.
If you find it kinky, you might want to consider your spouses feelings, and whether they would find it acceptable, a breach of intimacy, or disrespectful.
Dr. Ruth talks about everything, but very few are going to find her delivery kinky or inappropriate.
