Been working long and hard so I could take this past weekend off. Did the (6 hour each way) trip to pick up D#2, and frankly I'm exhausted. Couldn't sleep last night (overtired), and feeling a little low today.
Kaw,
I can't suggest anything to W right now. Her stance is that I make R issues out of everything. She says things like her lack of libido is her personal (not R) issue.
It's pretty hard to accept this since these things do affect me. Her position is that they shouldn't.
It's also hard to take since she tells me that things weren't right between us for years. She tried to tell me but I wouldn't listen.
Well, how can "things weren't right between us for years." not be a R issue?
I guess she's put it in the past, and the fact that things aren't right from my perspective is now my issue (i.e.: a personal issue).
I suppose her bottom line is that she's found a way to deal with "things not being right", so I should do the same. Problem is that the way I want to deal with it is not to adapt to this situation, but to correct it.
So, Rachael is absolutely right. She's not in a place to deal with what I consider to be R issues, and I'll just have to deal with that.
But today, I'm just too tired to deal with anything.
