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Chrome,

Last night I heard the song Buttons and thought ohhh this song is so Chrome. I come back to check on you and look what I find Mr I grab them and now she is grabbing for them. I guess now the next time I hear AVANTS song Making good love you will pop to mind lol.

Awesome job. Love the shower stories. That was always my favorite time to tell my H to drop his drawers.

Also love the fact that your not actually having sex with the wife. You are allowing her to get in touch with her sexuality and realize that it is not a bad thing and her pleasure is important to you. And I am sure the fact that there is no fear of the pain overriding her feelings at the moment is factoring in to that. Good for you letting it be mostly about her at the moment this also gives you a chance to try out new things that might increase her pleasure.

The quick O's not to worry since she has the ability to have another one afterwards sometimes they are nice but still leave that needing more feeling like it did not release all the pent up sexual tension down there which leaves the door open to want/need more stimualation to let it all explode. That is a great time to try new things. Like your example of what you did. Or keep stimulating while you kiss her belly all the way down until you can work your way down on her with out her realizing what you are about to do. Or you can stimulate her clit with your penis its called having sex from the outside without ever penatrating her. And it is stimulation for her.
But while you are doing all this for her you need to open her up to doing other things for you without intercourse.
While your size and girth would make a BJ majorly uncomfortable for a person with a normal sized mouth and impossible for one with a small one. When she is giving you a hand job suggest she alter and just lick the top of your head on and off. Let her know how hot it makes you thinking about it blah blah. You get the pic. You can also use her breast tell her how awesome they are and how you would love to rub your ---- all over them. Breast milk be damned good lubrication. Get her all hot and bothered and close to the end before you make the suggestions she may be a little more open and responsive then. Its all about teaching her her body is something to be worshipped and adored in everyway even sexually.And its all okay within the sanction of your marriage.
All these things are painless for her and great alternatives under the circumstances.

Okay now the bad. Your wife is sly. Why would a woman know and state she is ovulating (something you have to pay attention to) and then all of a sudden become so sexual.
Yes it is true some woman like myself get more riled the closer it gets to that time of month. But every month not just one. Factor in the fact she wants another baby and knows you are about to get snipped so her chances are fading fast. Flashing warning signs.
Or MAYBE it just happens she decided to embrace her sexuallity at that very same time. And MAYBE the fact that this is the same type of behavior that lead to baby number 3 is not what she is thinking. Either way my words use this to your advantage teach her to like and enjoy her own sexuallity. If she is plotting as long as you have restraint it is not going to be to her advantage in the mannor she is thinking. But it can be to your advantage. And the fruit she may end up bearring is a healthier happier marriage.

Oh and by the way I was jealous about your size thinking boy did I settle for less. But now that you are giving more exact sizes I am thinking length is okay but damn the girth would be like giving birth (lol)


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Or you can stimulate her clit with your penis its called having sex from the outside without ever penatrating her.


But I'm sure chrome knows that all it takes is for ONE of the guys to get through... so steer clear of this activity until the snip.

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I love this song Chrome. My H bought the CD. It is depressing isn't it?!


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We did get him at about 7.5" in circumference, while still a little flaccid.


Geeze. Did anyone else cut a strip of paper, 7.5 inches long and loop it around?

That ruined my whole day.

Hairdog, who is a bit obsessive, but now knows something he wished he didn't.

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Geeze. Did anyone else cut a strip of paper, 7.5 inches long and loop it around?




Good God, no! That's ridiculous. I would never do something as silly as that.

What I did, was just loop around a normal, 8 and a half inch piece of paper, and overlap it by an inch. Saved me the trouble of finding scissors.

And yeah, ruined my day too.

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Chrom enough with the negative songs.

Try some of the oldies like instrumentals done by the Ventures: Classical Gas, Green Onions, Ghost Riders in the Sky, Harlem Nocturne, Lonely Bull, Out of Limits, Pipeline, Red River Rock, Sleep Walk, Telstar, Tequila, Baja Marimba Band, or any other "crank-it-up" music you might like.

Canadian Brass, Herb Alpert, George Winston, are good alternatives to bad luck, did me wrong songs.

Lou

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Well with his size his head does not really need to get close to that area any how. But yeah at least a good idea to keep it covered if you choose to try it out.
And seriously it is not like she cannot transport his sperm to that area manually if she chooses to.

HD and Paul. Your to funny!
Size does not matter. Its what you do with it.
Oh hell who am I kidding size does matter but what good is it to be hung like a horse unless your doing a horse.

Chrissy who is liking this ball busting Chrome!

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Right on Karen, this is the way I am too. I once read on this board someone post that they had clocked up 30 O's in one session. Not sure how she kept count

Chrome, instead of just thinking OK she's O'd thats it remember she can most likely O multiple times. She has pent up her sexuality for a very long time and she is finally starting to let that out, no wonder she is Oing so quickly. Like Lil said (I think it was Lil? could've been Mojo) SHE is responsible for her O. If she is coming too quick she will be the one to learn how her body works and learn to prolong or slow things down if she wants to, or like the rest of us, learn she can fire one off in the first 15 seconds and then go into long slow leisurely mode and get some deeper more fulfilling O's. It would be good for you to encourage her to take the lead some, let her explore you - give her a few hints as she goes along about what's good for you.

All good stuff eh?

Fran


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Ok, am I the only female here who only O's once during sex?! I'm starting to feel inadequate!!!


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Oh, that's nothing, Heather. When I O with my wife the first time, I feel really hot afterwards, and when I O with my wife the second time, I feel really cold afterwards.

Of course, that's because the first time is in January and the second time is in July.

Hairdog

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