"Remember this milestone when you encounter the next speedbump (sorry to say that but for all of us they are inevitable from time-to-time)...it wasn't very long ago you didn't think you two would be having a weekend like this. You hoped for it, but you weren't sure it ever would...now it has. Next time you find yourself down...pull out this memory and remind yourself that you reached this goal...the others are attainable too!"
Very true, and I am cognizant of the fact that this can't possibly continue ad infinitum. Your last sentence did get me thinking. What are my other goals?
(1) An atmosphere of genuine affection. We are definitely not there yet, but it is getting much better. The W this morning said "affection is much easier now because I am not afraid of you pouncing on me anymore." In my mind I had it the other way around, that affection would come first then sex, but this way is ok too. (2) Lots more quality time. The night at the cabin was great, and she really enjoyed it. She openly said afterwards that having a good experience like that has opened her up to the possibility of doing more. I'm really hopeful that once the baby gets to babysitting age, we can start really getting out. Of course, I am also planning trips with the twins, and the baby after awhile too.
(3) This may be selfish, but I don't really care. It makes me feel really good when I hear WOA. I'm thinking this one may take care of itself after awhile, but if not I'll try to find an angle to deal with it.
(4) I still think MC, WWME, etc. is warranted. It just may not be as urgent, but a good session periodically to keep the juices flowing can't hurt. I'm sure that I can get her to agree to at least once every 6 months or so. Our marriage is worth it.
Thanks GEL
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
