This is REALLY tricky. Let me see if I can explain. I actually DON'T think anything's going on. I KNOW she has opportunity still but as I have said in the recent past, I truly don't FEEL his presence in our lives right now. That does NOT mean, however, that I am sure he doesn't have something to do with our "barrier". It could be the memory of him, or his calls to her cell, or whatever. I seriously, no matter how much I freaked this morning, don't think there is anything "going on" beyond MAYBE a phone call or something like that.