gh the conversation you said you might have, first thing, at this point you atleast know she has TRIED to contact om for what ever reason she has, that is fact. now if you have the conversation the way you wrote, if she says no she has not talked to him, (because lets be honest here) she will not say oh yea i called him last night just to see how he is doing, are you going to be ok with that knowing she is lieing to you. see this is where i differ, i think when you told her that you would be totally honest with her, that well you are lieing to her so why isnt she going to lie to you. honestly why should you expect anything else. i guess i would just come out and ask her why she has contacted om, and remind her to be honest with you because you are being honest with her about knowing she has contacted him. i feel if you two just like all of us here, want to start over our r in a new beginnning with honest and trust, then well we have to uphold our end of the bargin, im sorry man but i dont think beating around the bush is the way to go. she might be angry that you know, but then atleast you are being honest with her about it and she might respect you for it.
