He didn't hold onto himself and broke his wedding vows.
He talked a few times of the murder scene. I told him once that he "didn't kill me. . .my love for him survived".
Andy, at the time of the bomb I could have accepted the Divorce. He broke the covenant. I can still claim it because he has not recommitted to me. I made a decision to give Sage unconditional love and acceptance though. One of my strongest characteristics is that I honor committments. I never broke my vows to him other than to take him for granted (the respect portion of the vows). I asked him to forgive me; he said he did.
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My impression of you, Andy, is based on stuff you've said re your parents. You posted something to the effect that you'd never have an affair. That's a committment to holding onto yourself. That's the way to go.
I don't regard you as being on a pedestal but rather as a Lighthouse, shining bright.
