Quote: That's not just snooping, that's diggin' fer dirt!
Ok, that's fair, but I don't really see that WHERE I got the info, or how hard I had to work for it really matters. It was still snooping on her phone and the fact that I had to go to all that to get to it is a factor in WHY I suspect her in the first place...anyway...
Quote: FWIW, I think we all get to a point in a stagnant or limbo R that we want to make something happen, good or bad, so at least we have something to deal with. You've said it was easier when you had something to rally against, I agree. Look at this as the 'lucky break' you need to step up and zoom in again to clear up a fuzzy picture.
Very good way to turn this negative into a positive. Thank you for that.
Quote: 24 hour rule? cool off period?
Actually, this may be a good idea except that I am not really emotional or "hot" right now. I am calm and just thinking a lot. I don't know it that requires the same "cooling off" as would be the case if I was all upset and thought I was going to CONFRONT her rather than talk to her.
Like Muddle said awhile ago, I want to try to come at this from a "nice" place, not an angry, accusing one.
For THAT to happen, I may indeed need 24 hours because I am not quite there yet.
Funny, I was gonna post my new "script" that I came up with while at lunch but I forgot it. Somebody (quiet Amy) is trying to tell me something, lol.
