He and his wife are living together again after both had affairs...he had a sort of MLC...he had an affair first, moved out, shacked up with OW....came to his senses...wife was in a relationship. That ended and she moved back to Ca. from Oregon so he could be close to his son. He's had a long haul to get to this stage but he's waffling over intimacy issues now that they are living together again.