GH, In regards to the snooping. Yes, it is bad. Like you said it only proves that they are still talking, yet you have NO IDEA what was said. I know you why you did it though, because you can't figure out why your R is not moving forward. In any case, OM is still in the picture, so what? DOES that really change what we are all doing here? Continue to DB like a "M-fer" (your words)!!
Even if she does meet him this morning it could be to tell him once and for all that it is over between them, that she loves you and to leave her the hell alone. Right?