She's been calling me CONSTANTLY while she's on the road. She has always done this when traveling downtown. She hates to drive in general and downtown is the worst for her. She always gets lost, etc. So far, if this is a test, she has passed with flying colors. I can tell that she was where she said she was by the convo.
I know that does NOT mean I don't need to talk to her about the calls, but it does semi-mean that some of my thunder is lost. A lot of my motivation for all this was about the idea that she's seeing him now, and while it IS possible that he's meeting her somewhere, I sincerely doubt she would go through all this trouble to do it. She has ample opportunity to see him even WITH the kids (there is a child care thing at the gym so she could see him there and the kids would not be around) so why do all this? Even if she is pulling a fast one on me, it would have to be VERY fast indeed because since she's left the house, not 15 minutes has gone by where she didn't call me for some reason.
We'll see how the rest of the morning goes and if there are any large pockets of time where I don't hear from her or can't get her on the phone.
I know she'll want directions from where she is now to the next place she says she's going (she told me that) so I expect a call in a few minutes.
I hate to be like this, I really do, and now, thinking back to the snooping, I realize that IF this turns out to be nothing, then I DID break my own snooping rule because she pretty much admitted that she sees him on occasion passing throught the gym and that he calls her all the time still. I snooped and now I THINK I know something more than I do. I THINK she called him for what? It COULD be to tell him to f--k off and leave her alone. I have no idea and in hindsight, I have only gotten DETAILS about something I already knew, thus violating the rule. Damnit.
