Quote: You always say that snooping give you a false snapshot of what is actually going on.
One more time...I just wanted to clarify that in NO way did I think snooping would provide me with any kind of "big picture" or really any truth. It merely let me know that she's been in contact with him, more importantly that she initiated contact with him. I still don't know WHY she did this and to me, there is a lot of power in the why, even though I know it's still bad that she did it at all.
