GH, you know that you and I are in very similiar sitch's as far as romance goes. This week in particular I have really backed off. I have found that H is overly nice to me. Is this the distancer/pursurer thing I have read so much about, I don't know. But...I have just let him be. I don't obsess about ANYTHING. I know in my heart that we will work things out. I realize he might have went thru a mini MLC. I have pictures from D9's b-day last Feb. and he has those cold, unfeeling, dark eyes. His eyes are very bright and clear now. If that means anything.....
Anyway, I have chosen to stop thinking about being intimate. Maybe somehow he has picked up on that and the pressure is off. I don't know but things seem so much better between us.
