Hey, keep the long-winded philosophical discussion on YOUR thread, lol...
That said, I really identify with this...
Quote: my W and I live by 2 totally different philosophies now, I am fully accountable for myself and my actions and I am held fully accountable for my wife's feelings during any interactions I have with her, lol. I often think: this isn't fair, when is she going to realize she's not playing by the rules here.
I hate this too. I know I am responsible for myself now but she still acts like somehow I am responsible for her too. It sucks but I am learning to detach from that too.
