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I think in time, this will help her to understand herself.



Very good point, Mama. I have been kicking this around in my head: my W and I live by 2 totally different philosophies now, I am fully accountable for myself and my actions and I am held fully accountable for my wife's feelings during any interactions I have with her, lol. I often think: this isn't fair, when is she going to realize she's not playing by the rules here. I think you just answered that question for me. I think that it's just a matter of time before some genuine, focused self exploration and evaluation is done on the part of our WASs. I think the fact that we own ourselves and actions starts to make the once very blurry line between us much more defined. They can't help but to acknowledge everything that lies on their side of the line.


“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. ”
– Albert Einstein