Good for you GH. You a breaking the cycle by NOT reacting to her moods anymore. I think in time, this will help her to understand herself. She still seems to be a little lost and needs to find her way. Your PMA will be like a beacon shining brightly in a storm filled night. Eventually she will come to realize that having no money, being stuck at home with kids all day and small everyday problems, including parents that treat her like $h^t are just part of life, to deal with it and get over it.