GH, Your post reminded me of a time closer to the beginning of my sitch when I spotted my H looking a this wonderful photo album my MIL made for my daughter on her 10th birthday. It was her (our) whole life beginning with her ultrasound pictures. On this particular day my H looked at it at least twice. He seemed lost in the pictures and contemplating things in his mind. I know the kids are a huge reason he is still here. Like you said, staying together for the sake of the kids alone is really not good enough. Therefore I am trying so hard to get back that loving feeling with my H. I want to be good role models for my children. I don't want my kids to grow up thinking that a wife can allow her H to lie and cheat.
