She said that the passion was missing. She said that all intimacy that WAS NOT about sex was missing. She is right.
OK, so she is telling you what is missing and what she needs before she can feel intimate. Now to figure out what she means by passion, non ML intimacy. When did she last feel this way? What about that time made her feel that way. She was passionate before and she didn't get that way by herself. You contributed something to that! Find that and you should be (in time) on your way.
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You know the most prevalent thought I have right now is that I would like to just run away somewhere and do something, anything else. I can't do that because of work, kids, and really my W right now, but it's what I keep thinking about.
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I thought that when the bomb was first dropped on me. If it weren't for my kids I was ready to say the heck with work, W and take off for someplace tropical never to return. A lot of it was venting, but I still long for Palm trees, Sand and Sea.
"Our life is what our thoughts make it."
Marcus Aurelius